Shake it Like a Polaroid Picture

Emilio and I outside Caffé D’Italia.

by Victoria Hanson 

Strolling through the piazza slightly after pausa, the clan of students gather around Café D’Italia for their daily gelato.

From afar I notice Emilio surrounded by his friends. After catching each other’s gaze we stride towards one another meeting in the middle.

Ciao! The mutual excitement connecting after our first interaction was evident. Remembering the language barrier, Emilio eagerly hopes this encounter will be different. Lack of verbal understanding seemed frustrating as Emilio searched for an interpreter.

Still rejoiced by our encounter Emilio strived to enhance the experience. I approached an English, Italian speaking man who was eager to join the conversation. We spoke about our backgrounds before Emilio and I took a Polaroid picture. The Polaroid, a token for Emilio, drew an even bigger emotion filled smile, ranging from ear to ear.

Sitting with the American crew, Emilio becomes part of the students here for a limited time. The verbal words had limited meaning, therefore, the gestures provided greater context.

Although cultural dissonant situations can be a tiny obstacle that is usually resolved, the frustration is very real. Communication is a key part in establishing rapport, and building relationships. Without communicating, a person can feel defeated and begin to slip into a hidden shell.

Being reminded of the hardships between intercultural interactions, I appreciate the ability to connect with a person despite obvious obstacles.